I seriously don't know what to say or do.
I mean, I guess I didn't expect a big tidal wave of comments, but...
really? nobody needs any advice at all?
I don't know. I'm a little hurt.
It's totally anonymous you know?
Well, I am here if anybody does need advice.
I guess that's all I can say.
Thursday, March 3, 2011
Friday, February 25, 2011
Well Then...
Okay, folks, I've recieved no comments or messages yet.
I think, maybe, it might because no one has really heard any advice from me yet. (or, nobody reads this blog)
so here's a little taste,
I have this friend who is a junior but he's currently dating a freshman. They've been going out for a few weeks and he's already dropped the "L" word (that's 'Love' for you slow readers).
Now, personally, I think that's moving a little fast. But, this is high school, so what did you expect?
The thing is, she's going through some stuff right now and doesn't feel she can trust herself to say it back. Understandable, since she's got two guys in her past that she always seems to fall back on but they always leave her hurt.
What my friend doesn't understand is, if you want a girl to choose you, you can't just keep throwing the "L" word around or showering her with affection. Obviously this girl is going through some crap right now and she's feeling tremendous pressure on one side, and what does she feel on your side? GUILT. Big guilt, because you keep "loving" and "loving" her and she isn't going to love you back because she's confused.
You have to be her calm water. The person she goes to who will listen and understand. In this situation, YOU (my friend) have to be the one to shut up. Be there for her, that's what she needs.
That's it. Simple.
Be there for your girlfriend in her troubled time.
does that make sense? I think it does.
I think, maybe, it might because no one has really heard any advice from me yet. (or, nobody reads this blog)
so here's a little taste,
I have this friend who is a junior but he's currently dating a freshman. They've been going out for a few weeks and he's already dropped the "L" word (that's 'Love' for you slow readers).
Now, personally, I think that's moving a little fast. But, this is high school, so what did you expect?
The thing is, she's going through some stuff right now and doesn't feel she can trust herself to say it back. Understandable, since she's got two guys in her past that she always seems to fall back on but they always leave her hurt.
What my friend doesn't understand is, if you want a girl to choose you, you can't just keep throwing the "L" word around or showering her with affection. Obviously this girl is going through some crap right now and she's feeling tremendous pressure on one side, and what does she feel on your side? GUILT. Big guilt, because you keep "loving" and "loving" her and she isn't going to love you back because she's confused.
You have to be her calm water. The person she goes to who will listen and understand. In this situation, YOU (my friend) have to be the one to shut up. Be there for her, that's what she needs.
That's it. Simple.
Be there for your girlfriend in her troubled time.
does that make sense? I think it does.
Monday, February 21, 2011
And...Scene Change!
That's right, I am officially changing the nature of this blog (again).
I've come to the conclusion that I have grown as a person substantially since I last gave a crap about what I posted(which was at least three years ago). So I've decided to start not only giving a crap about my own blog, but giving a crap about the people who read it.
See, the main reason why I didn't really write much was because I didn't see a need to because NO ONE seemed to read it. But now, I don't know. I haven't been on it in a while. So I figure, if actual people are in actual need of my writing, then I have to write don't I?
The answer is yes.
And so, I promise to be completely blunt, honest, and sincere with the advice that I give. And I'm anonymous, so if you don't like what I say just say to yourself "screw her, she doesn't even know me." and forget everything I said.
But, if i actually help you, then we'll both have gained something from the experience.
So if you need any advice, about anything (family, friends, love, lies, job, etc.) send me a message and I'll post a response. and if you wish to remain anonymous, just say so, and I'll give you a witty little pen name (or make up your own, I don't care), all I wanna do is try to give somebody else in the world a little happiness and hope.
I've come to the conclusion that I have grown as a person substantially since I last gave a crap about what I posted(which was at least three years ago). So I've decided to start not only giving a crap about my own blog, but giving a crap about the people who read it.
See, the main reason why I didn't really write much was because I didn't see a need to because NO ONE seemed to read it. But now, I don't know. I haven't been on it in a while. So I figure, if actual people are in actual need of my writing, then I have to write don't I?
The answer is yes.
And so, I promise to be completely blunt, honest, and sincere with the advice that I give. And I'm anonymous, so if you don't like what I say just say to yourself "screw her, she doesn't even know me." and forget everything I said.
But, if i actually help you, then we'll both have gained something from the experience.
So if you need any advice, about anything (family, friends, love, lies, job, etc.) send me a message and I'll post a response. and if you wish to remain anonymous, just say so, and I'll give you a witty little pen name (or make up your own, I don't care), all I wanna do is try to give somebody else in the world a little happiness and hope.
Monday, June 29, 2009
We must tell Gatsby of this day!
though i do not think he would care. lol.
i wanna know what other people are doing with their summers. come on. don't be shy.
i wanna know what other people are doing with their summers. come on. don't be shy.
- gaining things
- losing things *hint*hint
- meeting people *double hint*hint
- dissing people
whatever you feel like venting.
Monday, June 15, 2009
I laugh in the face of institution! hahahahaha
okay so I'm not really laughing at institution, just academia......alright it's the same thing.
I will say that I did not get a single C on any finals! Hurray for me!!!! (no D's or F's either for those of you wise cracks)
so summer has arrived! the blissful days of sleeping till noon, staying up till dawn, and somehow eating in between. meh. though, alas, it cannot all be frivility and bliss, for I, me that's right, must attend a job. *gasp. choke. faint*
it's just a normal job at some fast food, whatever, but there are a few blips of excitement. I'm hosting a foreign exchange student, fun, I get to go to camp, yay, and there's some really good books coming out. YES!!!
Like:
Kiss of Life (already out)
Fablehaven bk4 (already out)
and a whole bunch of other ones that I don't feel like googling right now.
so rejoice my lazy friends, and all you losers can live through my excitement. >:P
I will say that I did not get a single C on any finals! Hurray for me!!!! (no D's or F's either for those of you wise cracks)
so summer has arrived! the blissful days of sleeping till noon, staying up till dawn, and somehow eating in between. meh. though, alas, it cannot all be frivility and bliss, for I, me that's right, must attend a job. *gasp. choke. faint*
it's just a normal job at some fast food, whatever, but there are a few blips of excitement. I'm hosting a foreign exchange student, fun, I get to go to camp, yay, and there's some really good books coming out. YES!!!
Like:
Kiss of Life (already out)
Fablehaven bk4 (already out)
and a whole bunch of other ones that I don't feel like googling right now.
so rejoice my lazy friends, and all you losers can live through my excitement. >:P
Tuesday, March 24, 2009
unknown
remember that boy, with that face,
the one in that shirt, at that one place,
the one with that hair, and those shoes ,
that thing that he did, it made all the girls swoon,
I know you remember, everybody does,
that boy, with that face, in that shirt, with those shoes.
the one in that shirt, at that one place,
the one with that hair, and those shoes ,
that thing that he did, it made all the girls swoon,
I know you remember, everybody does,
that boy, with that face, in that shirt, with those shoes.
Thursday, March 5, 2009
The Lonely Seeds
Wilting flowers sleep in shade,
sour berries need no rain,
seeds who wait for sunny days,
hold the strength to withstand the pain,
those lone seeds will grow far and wide,
those small seeds will touch the skies,
our future rests in those seeds' little stems,
our beloved world, rests soley on them.
sour berries need no rain,
seeds who wait for sunny days,
hold the strength to withstand the pain,
those lone seeds will grow far and wide,
those small seeds will touch the skies,
our future rests in those seeds' little stems,
our beloved world, rests soley on them.
Tuesday, March 3, 2009
Raspberry Pink
People who join clubs and sports,
often hang with different sorts,
and was that really what I wanted,
to be pulled out from the dark and the haunted,
a normal person would want to be,
to be freed, to be saved,
but not me,
I wish I did,
want to be happy and brainless,
but I know to much,
and there's been too many changes,
I crave the dark and my lust for the strange,
I thrive on the twisted the lost and diranged,
Too late for me to turn back time,
to sort out my thoughts, and change my mind,
my eyes bust open, I jump as I wake,
and everything............Is Raspberry Pink!
often hang with different sorts,
and was that really what I wanted,
to be pulled out from the dark and the haunted,
a normal person would want to be,
to be freed, to be saved,
but not me,
I wish I did,
want to be happy and brainless,
but I know to much,
and there's been too many changes,
I crave the dark and my lust for the strange,
I thrive on the twisted the lost and diranged,
Too late for me to turn back time,
to sort out my thoughts, and change my mind,
my eyes bust open, I jump as I wake,
and everything............Is Raspberry Pink!
That Boy With That Hair
I really like it when you walk right by,
every day is great that you don't say "hi",
its cool how you don't take a second look,
that you don't see me reading beyond my books,
its nice how you never see my eyes,
though you've caused all the tears that they have cried,
I adore how you don't return my stares,
and I absolutely love that you'll never care.
every day is great that you don't say "hi",
its cool how you don't take a second look,
that you don't see me reading beyond my books,
its nice how you never see my eyes,
though you've caused all the tears that they have cried,
I adore how you don't return my stares,
and I absolutely love that you'll never care.
Saturday, January 17, 2009
SUPERSPAZEXSTATARIFICEXPIALAWESOME!!!
that is the word we came up with to describe the play.
it was excellent beyond words!
everybody should see this play. and i know how cliche it sounds, but i honestly laughed, cried, and had one of the greatest times of my life!!!
if you want to have a blast, GO SEE WICKED!!!
you will most definitely not be disappointed.
it was excellent beyond words!
everybody should see this play. and i know how cliche it sounds, but i honestly laughed, cried, and had one of the greatest times of my life!!!
if you want to have a blast, GO SEE WICKED!!!
you will most definitely not be disappointed.
Friday, January 9, 2009
WOO HOO
I am super, super, super, super excited.
this Sunday, I get to go see the play Wicked with my school drama
club. we get to take the bus all the way to Chicago.
We also get to go shopping at the watertower place, and we get to
eat lunch at the hard rock.
I AM FREAK'N EXCITED!!!
this Sunday, I get to go see the play Wicked with my school drama
club. we get to take the bus all the way to Chicago.
We also get to go shopping at the watertower place, and we get to
eat lunch at the hard rock.
I AM FREAK'N EXCITED!!!
Sunday, January 4, 2009
it's over...
christmas break is now over.
***sob***sob***sob***
I must now return to a life of forced socializing and unwelcome judgement.
BLECH!!!
hope this new year can bring some new potential for me. otherwise i'm just as screwed as I was before.
GOODLUCK ALL FAITHFUL OUTCASTS!!!
***sob***sob***sob***
I must now return to a life of forced socializing and unwelcome judgement.
BLECH!!!
hope this new year can bring some new potential for me. otherwise i'm just as screwed as I was before.
GOODLUCK ALL FAITHFUL OUTCASTS!!!
Saturday, December 20, 2008
HURRAY!
it is officially christmas break! and we get two whole weeks off!!!
woo hoo!!!
honestly though, i have no idea what i'm going to do because school does take up most of my time and without it all i can think to do is sleep.
which doesn't sound that bad, but still kinda boring.
there's a kid at my school that insists boredom causes cancer. if that's true i should probably be dead by now, cause i'm bored beyond belief.
what about you? person who is probably not really reading this.
are you bored?
probably since you're reading a lame blog. what a bummer for you. newb!
woo hoo!!!
honestly though, i have no idea what i'm going to do because school does take up most of my time and without it all i can think to do is sleep.
which doesn't sound that bad, but still kinda boring.
there's a kid at my school that insists boredom causes cancer. if that's true i should probably be dead by now, cause i'm bored beyond belief.
what about you? person who is probably not really reading this.
are you bored?
probably since you're reading a lame blog. what a bummer for you. newb!
Wednesday, December 17, 2008
A BLOODY OUTRAGE IN THE EYES OF THE SCORNED!!!!
Yeah there's a flashy title cause I'm freak'n PO'd!!!!!!!
here's the deal. i have read so many reviews of stuck up, pompous, hobo-destined, over-educated, alcohol dependent MORONS some call movie critics, reviewing the movie Twilight. they're saying it was a "boring" "preprogrammed" "snoozer".
ARE YOU FREAK'N KIDDING ME!!!!
I'll tell you why critics seem to think this. Because when those idiots hear the word vampire, they immediately think "ooo, bloodsucking hell spawn!" "Yippie! Emotionless coffin-dwellers" or "woo hoo, Buffy The Vampire Slayer!!!!" and I tell you I'm sick of it!!!
here's the deal (directed solely at critics) assholes, vampirism is the backdrop of a ROMANCE. I'll tell you why you were disappointed, because the second you bought that ticket you already had a landscape of some gory blood shedding horror story burned into your expectations. the reason why so many teenage girls love it was because in going to the movie, we were able to experience the unseen events that before could only be imagined come to life before our very eyes! We scream and freak because we want to see the googley-eyes, and the secret kisses, and the deep conversations. and sure, we wanna see some kick ass vampire fighting too, but that is not the main point of the film!
you can watch any old school vamp movie you want, but you will not be able to tell me the plot of the story. and do you wanna know why? BECAUSE NOTHING HAPPENS!!!. it's just kill, after kill, after kill.
Edward Cullen is the ideal boyfriend any girl could dream for. Jacob Black is the one you would always want on your side. Alice is blinding light in darkness, Emmett is a small chuckle in a moment of intense panic, EVERYTHING THEY DO HAS A PURPOSE! and us, the readers, know that. we see that, we dream that, and we live for that. This movie is not about vampires, it's not about scandal and deception, it's about the fact that love can grow and flourish even under impossible circumstances.
this film did not have a massive budget, and they did not have many resources. considering that, I was damn impressed with how it came out. and I fully intend to go see New Moon, which will be better because now there is more money, and more inspiration.
and let me tell you something else, critics, when i go to see New Moon...I am gonna scream, and yell, make T-shirts, throw a party, and sit close to the screen until my eyes bleed.
because I am a Twilight addict, an O.C.D., a bookworm, and a fourteen year old teenage girl,
and I am DAMN PROUD OF IT!!!!!!
put that in your pipe and smoke it!!!
here's the deal. i have read so many reviews of stuck up, pompous, hobo-destined, over-educated, alcohol dependent MORONS some call movie critics, reviewing the movie Twilight. they're saying it was a "boring" "preprogrammed" "snoozer".
ARE YOU FREAK'N KIDDING ME!!!!
I'll tell you why critics seem to think this. Because when those idiots hear the word vampire, they immediately think "ooo, bloodsucking hell spawn!" "Yippie! Emotionless coffin-dwellers" or "woo hoo, Buffy The Vampire Slayer!!!!" and I tell you I'm sick of it!!!
here's the deal (directed solely at critics) assholes, vampirism is the backdrop of a ROMANCE. I'll tell you why you were disappointed, because the second you bought that ticket you already had a landscape of some gory blood shedding horror story burned into your expectations. the reason why so many teenage girls love it was because in going to the movie, we were able to experience the unseen events that before could only be imagined come to life before our very eyes! We scream and freak because we want to see the googley-eyes, and the secret kisses, and the deep conversations. and sure, we wanna see some kick ass vampire fighting too, but that is not the main point of the film!
you can watch any old school vamp movie you want, but you will not be able to tell me the plot of the story. and do you wanna know why? BECAUSE NOTHING HAPPENS!!!. it's just kill, after kill, after kill.
Edward Cullen is the ideal boyfriend any girl could dream for. Jacob Black is the one you would always want on your side. Alice is blinding light in darkness, Emmett is a small chuckle in a moment of intense panic, EVERYTHING THEY DO HAS A PURPOSE! and us, the readers, know that. we see that, we dream that, and we live for that. This movie is not about vampires, it's not about scandal and deception, it's about the fact that love can grow and flourish even under impossible circumstances.
this film did not have a massive budget, and they did not have many resources. considering that, I was damn impressed with how it came out. and I fully intend to go see New Moon, which will be better because now there is more money, and more inspiration.
and let me tell you something else, critics, when i go to see New Moon...I am gonna scream, and yell, make T-shirts, throw a party, and sit close to the screen until my eyes bleed.
because I am a Twilight addict, an O.C.D., a bookworm, and a fourteen year old teenage girl,
and I am DAMN PROUD OF IT!!!!!!
put that in your pipe and smoke it!!!
Saturday, December 13, 2008
i gotz a picture nowz!
i just figured out (yest it took me that long) that i can put some pictures on my blog. haha. i know i'm kinda stupid sometimes. so i decided to put my Twilight Logo on my blog. i made it up myself, with the help of my friend Britt. it's totally awesome and 100% original. like those bubs in suits could come up with something that cool. you wanna see some more of my creations you can check out my page on Tagged. my screen name on there is Inconditia, just look it up.
click here!
click here!
Thursday, December 11, 2008
assistance please.
okay. since i am a completely pathetic soul. and probably have no chance at love coming in the near future. I'm writing a story. I'd call it a book, but I'm only a few chapters into it so nothing's definite.
but what i'm asking of you good people who own computers, is that because i have no relationship experience (at all; pitiful) i want you hear about yours. so tell me anything that you think i can use for my story. i only ask that you keep your posts PG-13. because obviously i don't want to know everything. if you know what I mean.
but if you bother to read my blog, post a comment and help me out.
but what i'm asking of you good people who own computers, is that because i have no relationship experience (at all; pitiful) i want you hear about yours. so tell me anything that you think i can use for my story. i only ask that you keep your posts PG-13. because obviously i don't want to know everything. if you know what I mean.
but if you bother to read my blog, post a comment and help me out.
Thursday, December 4, 2008
Happy Holidays
hello people who bother to read my blog.
just wanted to wish everyone a Merry Christmas.
I honestly love love love Christmas. even though it's cold and nippy
outside and my toes go numb every five minutes. Everyone always
pays attention around Christmas. Suddenly it's all about the children.
total cliche. but still. Have you ever seen how much people notice
children around Christmastime? It's to sweet. Little kids are suddenly
into writing letters and giving to others, adults are suddenly aware of
all the options of what to get their kids, IT'S A FREAK'N LOVE FEST!!!
Happy Holidays everyone!!!
just wanted to wish everyone a Merry Christmas.
I honestly love love love Christmas. even though it's cold and nippy
outside and my toes go numb every five minutes. Everyone always
pays attention around Christmas. Suddenly it's all about the children.
total cliche. but still. Have you ever seen how much people notice
children around Christmastime? It's to sweet. Little kids are suddenly
into writing letters and giving to others, adults are suddenly aware of
all the options of what to get their kids, IT'S A FREAK'N LOVE FEST!!!
Happy Holidays everyone!!!
Saturday, November 29, 2008
Happy Turkey Day
precicely the heading. HAPPY TURKEY DAY FOLKS! give your thanks, god bless your loved ones, and continue to rock! HAPPY HOLIDAYS EVERYBODY!!!
Saturday, November 8, 2008
New Book Alerts
Hey, I've got some awesome book suggestions. most of them involve a romance of some sort, so it's mostly girly. but if you think you'd be into it, check out these books.
- The Moorchild
- Burned
- Incantation
- No Shame, No Fear
- Generation Dead
- Fablehaven
that's all I can think of right now. If I find some, I'll post them later. and if you have any recomendations, don't hesitate to comment on them.
Sunday, November 2, 2008
Waiting
I am in agony right now. It's already been settled that I get to buy the new nano-chromatic with the birthday money I recieved. But I still have to wait until I can buy it online, and then I have to wait until it arrives. and then I get to go to see Wicked with my school's drama club, but not until January. and I don't want to make time go faster, I'm one of those live in the moment kind of people, but the problem is: nothing is happening at this moment! I need something to do or look forward to. Twilight comes out in twenty days, but that seems like ages away.
I've turned to books for support, since the television networks have not satisfied me with any good movies. so if you have any books that could possibly pass the time for me, PLEASE do not hesitate to post. I read almost everything. Preferably romances and suspenseful things, I have no life, I need to live through the stories. Okay, you have your mission, FIND ME SOME BOOKS PLEASE!!!
I've turned to books for support, since the television networks have not satisfied me with any good movies. so if you have any books that could possibly pass the time for me, PLEASE do not hesitate to post. I read almost everything. Preferably romances and suspenseful things, I have no life, I need to live through the stories. Okay, you have your mission, FIND ME SOME BOOKS PLEASE!!!
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