I seriously don't know what to say or do.
I mean, I guess I didn't expect a big tidal wave of comments, but...
really? nobody needs any advice at all?
I don't know. I'm a little hurt.
It's totally anonymous you know?
Well, I am here if anybody does need advice.
I guess that's all I can say.
Thursday, March 3, 2011
Friday, February 25, 2011
Well Then...
Okay, folks, I've recieved no comments or messages yet.
I think, maybe, it might because no one has really heard any advice from me yet. (or, nobody reads this blog)
so here's a little taste,
I have this friend who is a junior but he's currently dating a freshman. They've been going out for a few weeks and he's already dropped the "L" word (that's 'Love' for you slow readers).
Now, personally, I think that's moving a little fast. But, this is high school, so what did you expect?
The thing is, she's going through some stuff right now and doesn't feel she can trust herself to say it back. Understandable, since she's got two guys in her past that she always seems to fall back on but they always leave her hurt.
What my friend doesn't understand is, if you want a girl to choose you, you can't just keep throwing the "L" word around or showering her with affection. Obviously this girl is going through some crap right now and she's feeling tremendous pressure on one side, and what does she feel on your side? GUILT. Big guilt, because you keep "loving" and "loving" her and she isn't going to love you back because she's confused.
You have to be her calm water. The person she goes to who will listen and understand. In this situation, YOU (my friend) have to be the one to shut up. Be there for her, that's what she needs.
That's it. Simple.
Be there for your girlfriend in her troubled time.
does that make sense? I think it does.
I think, maybe, it might because no one has really heard any advice from me yet. (or, nobody reads this blog)
so here's a little taste,
I have this friend who is a junior but he's currently dating a freshman. They've been going out for a few weeks and he's already dropped the "L" word (that's 'Love' for you slow readers).
Now, personally, I think that's moving a little fast. But, this is high school, so what did you expect?
The thing is, she's going through some stuff right now and doesn't feel she can trust herself to say it back. Understandable, since she's got two guys in her past that she always seems to fall back on but they always leave her hurt.
What my friend doesn't understand is, if you want a girl to choose you, you can't just keep throwing the "L" word around or showering her with affection. Obviously this girl is going through some crap right now and she's feeling tremendous pressure on one side, and what does she feel on your side? GUILT. Big guilt, because you keep "loving" and "loving" her and she isn't going to love you back because she's confused.
You have to be her calm water. The person she goes to who will listen and understand. In this situation, YOU (my friend) have to be the one to shut up. Be there for her, that's what she needs.
That's it. Simple.
Be there for your girlfriend in her troubled time.
does that make sense? I think it does.
Monday, February 21, 2011
And...Scene Change!
That's right, I am officially changing the nature of this blog (again).
I've come to the conclusion that I have grown as a person substantially since I last gave a crap about what I posted(which was at least three years ago). So I've decided to start not only giving a crap about my own blog, but giving a crap about the people who read it.
See, the main reason why I didn't really write much was because I didn't see a need to because NO ONE seemed to read it. But now, I don't know. I haven't been on it in a while. So I figure, if actual people are in actual need of my writing, then I have to write don't I?
The answer is yes.
And so, I promise to be completely blunt, honest, and sincere with the advice that I give. And I'm anonymous, so if you don't like what I say just say to yourself "screw her, she doesn't even know me." and forget everything I said.
But, if i actually help you, then we'll both have gained something from the experience.
So if you need any advice, about anything (family, friends, love, lies, job, etc.) send me a message and I'll post a response. and if you wish to remain anonymous, just say so, and I'll give you a witty little pen name (or make up your own, I don't care), all I wanna do is try to give somebody else in the world a little happiness and hope.
I've come to the conclusion that I have grown as a person substantially since I last gave a crap about what I posted(which was at least three years ago). So I've decided to start not only giving a crap about my own blog, but giving a crap about the people who read it.
See, the main reason why I didn't really write much was because I didn't see a need to because NO ONE seemed to read it. But now, I don't know. I haven't been on it in a while. So I figure, if actual people are in actual need of my writing, then I have to write don't I?
The answer is yes.
And so, I promise to be completely blunt, honest, and sincere with the advice that I give. And I'm anonymous, so if you don't like what I say just say to yourself "screw her, she doesn't even know me." and forget everything I said.
But, if i actually help you, then we'll both have gained something from the experience.
So if you need any advice, about anything (family, friends, love, lies, job, etc.) send me a message and I'll post a response. and if you wish to remain anonymous, just say so, and I'll give you a witty little pen name (or make up your own, I don't care), all I wanna do is try to give somebody else in the world a little happiness and hope.
Monday, June 29, 2009
We must tell Gatsby of this day!
though i do not think he would care. lol.
i wanna know what other people are doing with their summers. come on. don't be shy.
i wanna know what other people are doing with their summers. come on. don't be shy.
- gaining things
- losing things *hint*hint
- meeting people *double hint*hint
- dissing people
whatever you feel like venting.
Monday, June 15, 2009
I laugh in the face of institution! hahahahaha
okay so I'm not really laughing at institution, just academia......alright it's the same thing.
I will say that I did not get a single C on any finals! Hurray for me!!!! (no D's or F's either for those of you wise cracks)
so summer has arrived! the blissful days of sleeping till noon, staying up till dawn, and somehow eating in between. meh. though, alas, it cannot all be frivility and bliss, for I, me that's right, must attend a job. *gasp. choke. faint*
it's just a normal job at some fast food, whatever, but there are a few blips of excitement. I'm hosting a foreign exchange student, fun, I get to go to camp, yay, and there's some really good books coming out. YES!!!
Like:
Kiss of Life (already out)
Fablehaven bk4 (already out)
and a whole bunch of other ones that I don't feel like googling right now.
so rejoice my lazy friends, and all you losers can live through my excitement. >:P
I will say that I did not get a single C on any finals! Hurray for me!!!! (no D's or F's either for those of you wise cracks)
so summer has arrived! the blissful days of sleeping till noon, staying up till dawn, and somehow eating in between. meh. though, alas, it cannot all be frivility and bliss, for I, me that's right, must attend a job. *gasp. choke. faint*
it's just a normal job at some fast food, whatever, but there are a few blips of excitement. I'm hosting a foreign exchange student, fun, I get to go to camp, yay, and there's some really good books coming out. YES!!!
Like:
Kiss of Life (already out)
Fablehaven bk4 (already out)
and a whole bunch of other ones that I don't feel like googling right now.
so rejoice my lazy friends, and all you losers can live through my excitement. >:P
Tuesday, March 24, 2009
unknown
remember that boy, with that face,
the one in that shirt, at that one place,
the one with that hair, and those shoes ,
that thing that he did, it made all the girls swoon,
I know you remember, everybody does,
that boy, with that face, in that shirt, with those shoes.
the one in that shirt, at that one place,
the one with that hair, and those shoes ,
that thing that he did, it made all the girls swoon,
I know you remember, everybody does,
that boy, with that face, in that shirt, with those shoes.
Thursday, March 5, 2009
The Lonely Seeds
Wilting flowers sleep in shade,
sour berries need no rain,
seeds who wait for sunny days,
hold the strength to withstand the pain,
those lone seeds will grow far and wide,
those small seeds will touch the skies,
our future rests in those seeds' little stems,
our beloved world, rests soley on them.
sour berries need no rain,
seeds who wait for sunny days,
hold the strength to withstand the pain,
those lone seeds will grow far and wide,
those small seeds will touch the skies,
our future rests in those seeds' little stems,
our beloved world, rests soley on them.
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